Still Dad Guide

When You Can’t Eat

Stress can kill your appetite. I kept a list of simple foods for rough days.

It's 9pm and the kids are at their mom's. You haven't eaten since this morning. The fridge is full. You just can't.

Stress kills appetite.

That doesn’t mean your body doesn’t need energy.

This guide isn’t about nutrition.

It’s about staying functional.

What Happens to Your Body When You Skip Eating

On low-appetite days:

solid food feels like too much

decision-making drops

energy crashes faster

The goal isn’t a “meal.”

It’s calories and hydration.

Basic 3-Ingredient Shakes

If you can blend or stir, these work:

protein powder + milk + banana

Greek yogurt + berries + honey

oatmeal + peanut butter + almond milk

Drink it slowly.

No pressure to finish fast.

Low-Effort Calorie Lifesavers

When even blending feels like work:

Fairlife protein shakes

Orgain or Muscle Milk

Carnation Breakfast packets

chocolate milk, if that’s what goes down

Calories first.

Optimization later.

On Bad Days

When everything feels off:

don’t overthink meals

don’t aim for “healthy”

just get something in

Fuel helps regulate mood more than you think.

Hydration Rule

Keep it automatic.

water bottle filled

sip without thinking

refill when empty

Dehydration makes everything feel worse.

When you fuel your body, even imperfectly:

your nervous system settles

patience improves

thinking clears

crashes soften

Eating something is always better than eating nothing.

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