Still Dad Guide

Taxes After Divorce

Tax laws change. The figures and rules in this guide reflect general understanding at time of writing, verify current amounts and rules with a tax professional or at IRS.gov before filing.

Taxes change after divorce in ways most people don't expect.

You filed jointly last year. This year you're filing alone for the first time. You're not sure about filing status, who claims the kids, or what the alimony situation does to your return. It's more complicated than it used to be.

Divorce changes your tax situation in ways most people don't think about until it's too late.

You don't need to become a tax expert.

You need to know what changed and ask the right questions.

Your Filing Status Changes

Your status for a given tax year depends on whether you were legally divorced by December 31 of that year.

Married filing jointly, only available if you were still legally married on December 31

Married filing separately, if you're still legally married but want to file independently; usually results in higher taxes, used strategically in some situations

Single, your default once the divorce is finalized

Head of household, available if you're single, paid more than half your home costs, and had your child living with you for more than half the year; better tax rates than filing single

Head of household status matters.

If your kids spend significant time with you, you may qualify. Confirm the rules with a tax professional.

Who Claims the Kids

This is one of the most common points of conflict.

The IRS default rule: the parent who had the child for more nights during the year claims the child as a dependent.

But:

your divorce agreement may specify something different

the custodial parent can sign Form 8332 to release the exemption to the non-custodial parent for a given year

some agreements alternate years

Do not both claim the same child. The IRS will catch it, and whoever filed second will face penalties.

Get this in writing in your agreement and follow it.

Child-Related Tax Benefits

If you qualify to claim your child:

Child Tax Credit, up to $2,000 per child under 17 (verify current amounts at IRS.gov, this figure changes with legislation)

Child and Dependent Care Credit, if you paid for childcare while you worked

Earned Income Credit, if your income falls within qualifying ranges

These are real dollars.

Know whether you're entitled to claim them before you file.

Alimony and Support

Child support, not deductible for the payer; not taxable income for the recipient

Alimony (spousal support), for divorces finalized after December 31, 2018: no longer deductible for the payer, no longer taxable for the recipient. For divorces before that date, old rules may still apply.

If you're paying or receiving spousal support, confirm how it's classified in your agreement and how it affects your filing.

What to Do Before You File

confirm your filing status based on your divorce finalization date

review your divorce agreement for any language about tax dependency

gather documentation for any child-related expenses you paid

tell your accountant or tax software about the divorce upfront

consider working with a CPA for at least the first post-divorce filing

The first year is the most complicated.

Getting it right once makes the following years simpler.

Disclaimer

This is informational, not tax advice. Tax laws change. Your situation has specific variables. Consult a CPA or tax professional for advice on your filing.

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